Each of them drew strength from the other. We might have done the same if our lives had been stripped of our closest companions, comfort, and convenience.
Poverty and starvation loomed in the future and, desperate, the women were forced to leave the home they’d shared with those who now lay shrouded in graveclothes—the men who once offered love and protection.
Some of you might relate to the Old Testament figures of Naomi and Ruth. Perhaps you’ve been widowed or dealt with the pain of divorce. Maybe you know the struggles of an empty bank account and bare cupboard. The heartache of an empty womb or the imprint of soil wedged beneath your knees as you weep at your child’s graveside.
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Emotional pain can drive us to become someone we never imagined we might become; a person coddling and stroking feelings that only grow more intense and hurtful unless given over to the truth of scripture.
In Naomi’s case, bitterness toward God consumed her life and impacted her faith. She said, “…the Almighty has made my life very bitter. I went away full, but the Lord has brought me back empty. Why call me Naomi? The Lord has afflicted me; the Almighty has brought misfortune upon me.” (Ruth 1:21 NKJV)
I empathize with this dear lady. I’m not much different. In fact, seven years ago I’d repackaged her words as, “Why me, God? Why my children?”
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I once walked in Naomi’s bitter shoes, blaming God for the assaults the enemy sent my direction through various avenues. But there is a way to rediscover hope in a season of suffering. Like Ruth, who affirmed her commitment to both her mother-in-law and God, we can cling to our faith.
Ruth was a remarkable young woman. She’d suffered the same circumstances as her mother-in-law but approached them differently. Rather than blame-shifting or abandoning either her new family or her budding faith, she doubled-down on commitment. Ruth famously said, “Your people will be my people and your God my God.” (Ruth 1:16 NKJ)
She might have returned to the comforts and familiarity of family and to the gods she’d worshipped as a child. Instead, Ruth chose the companionship of a grieving woman, a land filled with people who considered her an enemy, and a God who would bless her bloodline for her faithfulness.
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Though it may be tattered or worn thin, He is able to increase even a mustard seed faith (Matthew 17:20) and grow beauty through hardship and perseverance.
When we walk through a season of suffering, we have a choice. Will we choose bitterness or faith?
A prayer if you’re struggling with faith today-
Father,
Life has been so difficult and my spirit is grieved. Some days, I feel as though my faith lies in tatters and I’m not sure it will ever recover. I know you “have plans to give me a hope and a future” (Jeremiah 29:11) and I ask you to help me believe that will mend what is broken and restore what has been stolen. Give me a mustard seed faith, Lord, to trust you in all circumstances and root out any bitterness or other emotion that dishonors you.
In the powerful name of Christ, Amen
Peace and grace,
Tammy
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Amen Ms. Tammy. The struggle is real ma’am. In fact, I think it is Satan’s favorite pastime; to see how many different ways he can disrupt a Christian’s journey in faith. Loved this post ma’am. Wonderful truths!
Well put, J.D. The struggle is real! Every day, may we both pick up our cross and follow after Him.
Blessings to you, Tammy
We all go through seasons of discouragement that test our faith–this year has been on of the hardest. Thank you for sharing the role model of Ruth, who followed her heart and found faith and joy. There is hope!
Hi Katherine. I pray the coming year will be easier for you. I’m so grateful for the hope we have in Him! Peace and grace, Tammy
Thanks for the reminder that we can be bitter or let God make us better. One letter leaves a big difference for the trajectory of our lives. The path to growth may be paved with pain, but God refines our hearts into gold.
I don’t think any of us would choose pain but when we look bac on our lives, perhaps we’ll see more clearly. Blessings, Tammy
Where would Naomi had been without Ruth? Despite the fact that Naomi’s husband moved them to Moab (without direction from God) God blessed them and brought Naomi back to her home. She didn’t understand that her suffering was not brought on by God but was an attack of the enemy in a foreign land. We can do that too when we don’t understand what is happening But our God is always faithful and He never leaves us or forsakes us. Your post is a beautiful rendition of Naomi and Ruth.
Hi Barbara. I can relate to Naomi but want to be more like Ruth. I’m grateful God is faithful to us! Blessings to you, Tammy