It’s the American dream. The subject of Time magazine’s recent expose’. And Hollywood’s driving force lived out loud in a string of movie star marriages, breakups, and over-the-top living.
We pine for it in the same way a widow longs to be reunited with her spouse. The here-and-then-gone-again feeling of happiness. We search for it like we might a treasure buried in the sand, hoping the next marriage, new house, or upgraded tax bracket will soothe the cry of our hearts for something more. Searching for a salve to soothe the realities of the divorce papers strewn across the countertop, the prescription medicines filling our cabinets, or the anxiety skulking in the corners of our minds. We yearn for it and hold out our cup of need, “Just a little bit of happiness please. Fill it up.”
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Friends, the joy we’re searching for isn’t discovered in the pursuit of more toys, more money, or more indulgence. It won’t be found at the bottom of an empty bottle, a scorched credit card and pretty things, or in promotions and accolades.
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Happiness. Joy. Blessedness. It all begins and ends in our relationship with Jesus. We may walk through the fire, wander in the desert, or stumble around the darkest valley and still hold to an abiding sense of blessing regardless of circumstance.
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A woman once commented, “I kind of feel like life is like that ‘whack-a-mole’ game. I think I can catch my breath after some life jag and then something else pops up.”
Have you ever felt the same way; as though a reprieve from all of the challenges and set-backs lies just beyond the horizon only to realize another fear inducing obstacle is poised to pounce in the distance between here and there? Desperately attempting to manage, you aim wildly at the hurt or heartache, hazard or hardship.
Once in a while, your dodging and parrying succeeds. A nuisance is eliminated. A potential problem avoided. But, most of the time? The issues resurface or something new thrusts itself onto life’s landscape.
Where is happiness in these situations? Is happiness even possible?
During the next several weeks, we’ll explore several keys to fostering joy and discovering happiness that extends beyond circumstance. Will you join me, friend? In the meantime, may I pray for you?
Father, we live in a world that would steal all of our joy if it could. We long for a taste of hope and know that you are the answer. Would you fill my sisters’ cup of need today with your love and faithfulness? Prepare her heart for today’s challenges and open her eyes to the beautiful gifts that surround her. Help us to seek you above all else and to exchange our burdens for Christ’s blessings. In the powerful name of Jesus, Amen
Amen Tammy! This is so true – our happiness doesn’t and won’t come from things its only found in Jesus.. I also love the whack-a-mole analogy – I loved playing that game when I would take my kids to the arcade and it’s true of how we can feel sometimes. Thanks for this reminder today to look to Jesus – He is where our joy and happiness is rooted.
I want to invite you to link this post up with me on #TuneInThursday if you haven’t already. (I didn’t see it last night) maybe you have already 🙂 this post is great Tammy. Thank you!
Hi Debbie. So good to hear from you! Above all else, happiness is found in Him alone. I’m looking forward to sharing this series. Thanks for commenting and stopping by!
I think the linkup closed before I could get to it. My week has been a little wild getting back to school. 🙂
Peace and grace,
Tammy
Yes, life can become very overwhelming & I love your analogy with the game, I feel the same at times! But we come back to our life with Jesus & we face it together, praise Him!
You’re welcome to drop by for a cuppa Tammy,
Jennifer
Hi Jennifer,
I enjoyed your latest post, “Flight Delay.” What a great message about waiting! It can be difficult to shift our perspective, but God knows the beginning from the end. Thanks for the reminder!
Peace and grace,
Tammy
Hi Tammy,
Lovely of you to drop by, yes its all a learning curve isn’t it. But the outcome brings such peace & serenity in Him.
Jennifer
This post makes me think of Paul’s “secret to contentment!” Great topic, thanks for this starting reminder that happiness isn’t born of our stuff or circumstances!