Then the LORD God said, “I see that it is not good for the man to be alone. I will make the companion he needs, one just right for him. Genesis 2:18
Exotic flowers of every hue filled the garden with their beauty while nightingales whistled a love song. Admiring the innocence and perfection of the young couple, their Father smiled in approval. Adam and Eve were married.
From the beginning, God intended marriage to bless the men and women joined in this one-of-a-kind, soul binding union. We know, though, the simplicity of marriage was forever altered when the inaugural couple chose self before God. Like the thorns that sprouted from the ground as a result of sin’s corruption, disharmony erupted in the fledgling relationship. If you’re married, you’ve experienced this yourself–finger-pointing, fault-finding, or disappointment in one another.
Some have experienced marriage at its worst, others are struggling to hold fast to their vows, and a few are on a marriage mountaintop. Whatever place you are in today–even this very moment–be encouraged. While a husband and wife are meant to bless one another, true fulfillment comes from our relationship with our Heavenly Husband. He is the one who can meet every need, relieve every worry, and love perfectly.
3 Action Steps You Can Take
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Give thanks for your husband–Let God AND the man in your life know how you’ve been blessed because of him. If you’re marriage is struggling, look each day for one positive thing he’s said or done that you can mention in appreciation.
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Reach out to others–Couples need other people. Don’t rely only on one another to meet the impossible task of fulfilling every need. You’ll both be better equipped for marriage if you have friends. Need guidance? All couples do at some point. Don’t be afraid to seek counsel from a couple you admire or even professional assistance.
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Perspective–As much as you may love your husband, have you thought about Him lately? He loves you perfectly and completely. If you’ve been let down by the hope of a marriage made in heaven, dear friend, then one day you will celebrate a relationship like none other–the bond shared between you and your Heavenly Husband. He waits for you with open arms. If you haven’t already, why not ask Him to be part of your life today?